If your wife was the adultress, how is it that you got kicked out? Was it her house?
I'm not against supplements, but thing that most people count on them way too much and pretty much everyone can get great results without them.
If you need quick carbs and protein after a workout, have a peanut butter sandwich. Or a pasta and chicken salad. A baked potato with chili or tuna.
Most hardgainers don't eat as much as they think they do. Start keeping a food diary.
0_o New flash Droc in the Western World (i.e. the developed nations) the man has lost athuority over the house,his woman,his life.